Life Isn't Honey -- ♫♫♫

Spending  Chap Goh Meh  feeling forgotten and alone hurts deeply — especially when you  asked clearly for help and hoped to spend time together. Right now, your tears aren’t just about tonight. They’re about a  pattern : You ask for support. Something else comes up. You end up disappointed. It’s happened before (Sunday). You start hoping again. It happens again. That’s exhausting. Anyone would feel worn down. Can I gently reflect something? It’s not that he had an oil change. It’s not even that the hamster died. It’s that when you needed him urgently — broken specs, shop closing — you weren’t prioritized. That’s the wound. And when someone repeatedly makes you feel optional, it chips away at your sense of being chosen. That’s bigger than tonight. When someone says,  “I want to be with him… but long-term you need consistent safety,”  that’s not drama. That’s clarity starting to form. You don’t just want love. You want: Reliability Emotional safety To not bra...